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Why “Normal” Men Are Turning Their Backs on Women

And getting on with life

Joaquim M.
5 min readFeb 15, 2024

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I read this great article by Louise MoulinWhy Women are Turning Their Backs on Men — and Getting on with Life”.

You should read it to get a woman's perspective on men.

Many perspectives make you less s….d as a person and you tend to understand people better. Or so I have heard.

Since I already know this from a biological standpoint and my thousands upon thousands of hours speaking and listening to women.

I thought I would add the NORMAL male perspective.

Now I know that some will freak out by this article.

I guess they are politically correct Authoritarians which I describe in my article:

You see this can easily be predicted.

There is a reason the “The Mentalist” works. If you have the knowledge you know what people, somewhat, will do next.

But please hear me out anyways.

I have already written the article “6 Resons Why Tinder is Worthless and Bad for Dating” to describe who is on that platform.

You should probably not look for a partner there if you are a woman.

The Biology Behind Women and Men

David Buss from the University of Austin Texas wrote two books based on his research.

  1. Why Women Have Sex
  2. The Evolution of Desire

He has also done research on who men and women choose and are attracted to.

He studied about 10,000 people from 37 cultures.

He wanted to investigate the differences in qualities that men and women look for in potential partners.

Would these preferences be universal across all the cultures in the 37 countries?

He found that women from most cultures valued “good financial prospects” more highly than men did. Men generally preferred younger mates, while women preferred older males.

We also see that women that go to universities change out their partner as they climb the social hierarchy for each degree.

Because women have a hard time dating down in social status.

That is one reason why men have evolved to have more psychopathic behaviours to gather money to attract a woman.

Because women choose the man and not the other way around.

Yes, greed-avoidance is the opposite of anti social behaviours aka Psychopathy, Machiavellian, Narcissistic, and Sadistic.

It is measured by the personality trait of Honesty & Humility.

Low in greed-avoidance individuals wear only expensive clothes, drive expensive cars, and ONLY associate with the elite.

That includes women!

As David Buss points out that men are NOT attracted to women with low greed-avoidance.

Men are unfaithful

Some are, and they have a different brain than us NORMAL men.

You can see it in a brain scan and those who are unfaithful, and are disrespectful to women, have many more problems.

They also never seek professional help.

They are more or less Anti Social Personalities aka Dark Tetrad Personalities as I write about in my article “Men will NEVER Marry These Women Unless They are Desperate”.

But I get that women are traumatised by them and give up.

Men do the same when they get traumatised by Dark Tetrad Women.

The problem is that young women are attracted to Psychopaths, Machiavellian men during ovulation.

We should teach young women to spot the Dark Tetrad Men!

Ladies have lost all respect for the men

This I can understand because in egalitarian countries men are more women than men.

This has become a problem in the workplace and in private life.

Men should be men and women should be women.

It is too easy for men to slip off into the night and gaslight

Women have a superpower in that they have more brain cells regulating language.

Men don’t stand a chance agains women's ability to gaslight.

Women do gaslight when they meet a normal man that is verbally intelligent.

Because that is a woman’s last resort.

Women also learn to be Oppositional in blaming others for what they do.

It is also known as projecting and happens when under the duress of a negative emotion.

It is subconscious.

Unfortunately men do not accept neurotic or emotionally unstable women because it can harm their potential children.

Unfaithful Men and Women

A study on an American female magazine showed that 69% of the responding women had been unfaithful.

Let me say that again — “69% of women were unfaithful!”

Another research paper discovered that 33% of the women said they were unfaithful.

An additional 33% of the women in that research confessed during the first therapy session that they were unfaithful.

66% in total

But all in all it is about 50/50 between the sexes based on the research.

Still I get why both women and men choose to not date any longer.

Dishonesty, Mental and Physical Health

Dishonesty is a cause for cardiovascular disease which I write about in my article “1 Thing To Save Your Heart: This Is How”.

A man do not tolerate a woman that is not consistently honest with him.

You can be machiavellian when roleplaying and that is sexy and hot.

But not in your personality.

It is super important to stick to an honest personality every day in every situation in order for the other person to feel and know who you are all the time.

Or there is no trust.

No Normal Man or Woman will stand for that!

(If you have any question. Please just write a comment.)

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Joaquim M.
Joaquim M.

Written by Joaquim M.

8000+ Professional Hours Evaluating People. I write about Human Psychology encompassing both Cognitive and Personality Psychology 🧠. Website: joakimmarias.com

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